Gentlemen, Please Note This List

The NYT had a great op-ed on Sunday on whom not to marry. The article lists traits to avoid, and the advice comes from a Catholic priest who has experience in marriage counseling and in giving lectures to high school girls on this topic. Why high school girls? The priest sagely explains, “It’s important to do it before they fall seriously in love, because then it will be too late. Infatuation trumps judgment.” I completely agree; most of his advice is commonsensical but so easy to forget!